Your Identity: The Shortcut To Sustainable Impact (without burnout)
I’ve been thinking about something I see so often in the brilliant, driven, world-changing women who have already achieved so much – and yet still feel that tug of burnout, the
Myth: “You just need to use your voice”
I had to share this with you, as I’m seeing some coaches talk about “using your voice” online as it seems to be the new popular thing to claim as your niche
Dear Erika Kirk.
I wrote this post on Facebook this week and felt to share it with you.. This is written entrepreneurial woman to entrepreneurial woman. I have worked in this space for
Spiritually Stuck High-Achievers: The Trap of Learning About God
Is learning about God keeping you wandering in the desert, spinning your wheels? When we’ve been through hurt — especially church hurt and religious trauma – it’s so easy to
How To Choose The Perfect Brand Name?
How to Choose the Perfect Business Name Is coming up with the perfect business name taking up way too much of your time? Are you tired of finding a name
The Top 8 Brand Naming Mistakes You Need To Avoid
The Top 8 Business Naming Mistakes You Need To Avoid Today, I’ll be showing you which MISTAKES you need to avoid like the plague so you can come up with
How to Create a Powerful Brand Name That Stands Out
The KPIs of a Powerful Brand Name Does this sound anything like you? You’re driven, ambitious, and always pushing forward. You’re either in startup mode or gearing up to relaunch
It’s Here: A Clear Path to Your Aligned Brand Name
The fastest way to choose an aligned brand name you’re proud to promote is here! If you’ve been wrestling with the idea of renaming your business or finding the right
Spiritual People-Pleasing
Can we talk about Spiritual People-Pleasing? Because people-pleasing itself is a pattern. Self-abandonment is a pattern.. And it’s a pattern that many of us picked up at an early age –
2025: A Restoration Kind Of Year
2024 was the year this unlikely prophesy started to come true for me.. I heard it in a podcast episode I was randomly listening to in 2020. It was strange
Dimming Your Own Light & Voice, & Playing Too Small?
It can be incredibly frustrating to know that you’re smart, sparkly and brilliant.. Yet find yourself dimming your OWN light, silencing your OWN voice and playing smaller than what you
I Don’t Pray You Get To Go To Heaven, Or Avoid Hell.
I don’t pray you get to go to heaven, or avoid hell. Here’s what I do pray: I pray Jesus reveals Himself to you fully. I pray that your eyes
I Don’t Know Everything About God..
Someone recently commented on one of my posts saying that nobody can be an expert on God. And here’s the thing – I don’t know everything about God.. But this
Confession: I’m Still Deconstructing My Faith.
I’m still “deconstructing” my faith & will until the day I die.The difference is, I do it WITH God, rather than apart from Him. Yes this was a painful experience
Unmatched Trauma Healing Method That Is Better Than Breathwork Or Meditation.
You don’t need more meditation or breathwork to find your calm; you need to reclaim sovereignty over the part of you that is dysregulated b/c she seeks others to mirror
After Meeting Jesus & Leaving Religious Christianity, I NEVER Try To Be A “Good Person” Anymore.
When my focus was on being a “good Christian” or a “good person”, my focus was on trying to be something outside of me. An ideal. I’m still trying to
You Don’t Need More Nervous System Regulation. This Is What You Need For Past Trauma Healing Instead.
I see this sooooo often. Everyone’s out here seeking nervous system regulation for past trauma healing, when what you really need is trigger removal. Take it from me, I am
You Can’t Be Authentic While Working Hard AGAINST The Toxic Religious & Masculine Conditioning Your Grew Up With
Some of you are working so hard AGAINST the toxic religious & masculine conditioning you grew up with around AUTHORITY that it’s limiting your potential now .. it’s directly impacting
“I’m Going To Be The Very Thing You Didn’t Want Me To Be” Is Not Being Unapologetically YOU.
“I’m going to be the very thing you didn’t want me to be” is not being unapologetically you, it’s a trauma response. (Eg. You grew up with religious parents who
God Didn’t Design You To Be A ‘Good Christian Girl’.
God never desired you to be a facade, a shell of yourself, or a Good Christian Girl who could only comply, dim herself and her voice down and fit the
A Must-Read If You Learned God Through The Lens Of Wounded Men.
When we have grown up learning God through the lens of wounded men, we have to be careful that we don’t relearn God through the lens of wounded women. The
Burnt Out But Can’t Stop Proving Yourself? This Is For You.
If you feel burnt-out but can’t stop proving and pushing (even though you are financially secure); you need to focus on creating deep internal security around your worth. The COMPULSION
This Is The Kind Of Community That Christian & Former Christian Women Need To Be More Authentic
Often for decades, former ‘Good Christian Girls’ have been surrounded by women absorbing the same conditioning and teachings as them: This creates whole communities of women who believe their conditioning
Burnout Doesn’t Happen Because Of How Many Hours You Work. Here’s The Truth That Will Set You Free.
Burnout doesn’t happen because of how many hours you work; it happens because of the energy you use to achieve those hours. And it’s not as simple as “take more
Frustrated Because You’re Not Tapping Into Your Highest Potential As A Female Entrepreneur or Leader?
If you’re frustrated because you’re not tapping into your fullest potential – let me first tell you this: You’re wildly capable; you just need CLARITY! Clarity on why exactly you
Why A Sabbatical Won’t Cure Your Burnout
Taking a sabbatical/holiday when you’re in patterns of burnout is like the woman who takes a break from dating without healing the roots of her relational issues. It’s just escapism
God does not have a fragile ego.
God does not have a fragile ego. He can handle your brilliance, your magic, your SPARKLE After all, He made you so. We must be careful not to project the
What Is Wrong With Being A Good Christian Girl?
I’ve been asked this alot in comments on my posts on social media, and I understand the mindset. It’s coming from people who are where I used to be. I
Protecting Yourself From The Toxicity In Your Religious Past
< Go from 0-1000mph instead of expressing hurt, anger, frustration or disappointment in healthy ways, you explode (then feel freaking guilty afterwards)? < Frustrated by your religious up-bringing and the
There Are Only 2 Things A Girl/Woman Can Be In Many Conservative Christian Spheres (Why You Dim Yourself Down):
In many conservative religious circles, there are only 2 things a woman can be (why you dim yourself & your voice down): In my deep observation, my own spiritual awakening
How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Exploding In Anger
I used to go from 0 (Nice Christian Girl/Good Girl—compliant and quiet) to 1000 mph (psycho angry Leah) before exploding. Now I stand up for myself instead.. you can too.
The ‘Religious Rebel’ Woman vs the ‘Good Christian Girl’ Archetype & How To Break Free To Be YOU
The dichotomy of the ‘Religious Rebel’ Woman & the ‘Good Christian Girl’ Archetypes & how to break free to be more of your authentic self: In my deep research, my
I’m Having a Crisis of Faith / Spiritual Awakening
I’ve been there—the moment where you feel like everything you thought you knew is unraveling, and it feels like a crisis. But what if this isn’t a breakdown but a
My Business/Niche Feels Misaligned—How Can I Find My Authentic Path?
You’re a visionary, smart, and damn good at what you do. But lately, something feels off. You’ve mastered your field, yet you’re craving a slice of your niche that feels
How To Stop Dimming Yourself Down & Silencing Your Voice.
You’re a powerhouse—a high-achieving, visionary businesswoman. So why do you still find yourself dimming your light or biting your tongue in rooms where you should be fully seen and heard?
Don’t Know Why I Feel Burnt Out?
Are you feeling burnt out and can’t figure out why? I mean.. your Inner Critic tells you that you **shouldn’t** feel burnt out.. Your life is pretty great. You have
You don’t need to burn it all down.
You don’t need to pause or close down and walk away from everything you’ve built in order to create a more aligned business. I see you. I know it feels
The Loud Inner Critic
Ever wonder why your inner critic is so loud? She serves a purpose too.. That purpose is often MOTIVATION for CHANGE. She’s actually trying to help you meet your goals,
At A Crossroads
If you’re feeling burnt out and like you’re standing at a crossroads in your business, life, or spiritual journey, you’re not alone. That deep exhaustion, that sense of disconnection, is
You’re not burnt out.
You’re not burnt out, you’re just abandoning yourself (again). Before you book that 10k+ holiday, let me tell you something. (LET ME TELL YOU SOMETHING!) When most of my clients
Feel Distant From God? Here’s why:
This is important work. The most important work. Because in view of this, your whole world is realigned, your life is reimagined.. Limitations that you were experiencing because of perfectionism,
Projection – The Silent Relationship Killer
Projection is a killer of relationships 💀 The problem is, most times we aren’t self aware enough to actually catch ourselves doing it.. All we know is that we feel
Prayer or Manifestation?
Controversial question: Prayer or Manifestation? Before you read my below comment, you need to know this about me. I don’t and won’t give you the “answers”.. Because it’s NOT ABOUT
Mindset vs Inner Work
Strategy + mindset = good Strategy + inner work = extraordinary You can only get so far with positive thinking and reframes. These are great, but the true trajectory shifts
Spiritual Hunger
Here’s what you need to know about Spiritual Hunger: We all have it. And we all work to satiate it in different ways.. Once I learned this I stopped judging
God = Shame & Perfectionism?
When we are taught God through the lens of shame and perfectionism; we often find ourselves proving ourselves; hiding who we really are, doubling down on working hard to always
How can you own your value when you feel fundamentally unworthy?
There were two big places in my life that toxic teachings around me being fundamentally unworthy and inherently not good really showed up and made me begin to question what
God’s perfect love transformed me more than shame ever could
God’s perfect love transformed me more than shame ever could For decades I was in unhealthy religious and familial environments filled with shame, fear, obligation, guilt, judgement and perfectionism. It
3 things I wish I knew sooner about having a close relationship with God after religious abuse:
3 things I wish I knew sooner about having a close relationship with God after experiencing alot of religious garbeigeeee: ONE: Just how much my complex faith history in toxic
Religious Mindsets Are Not Limited To Religious Environments (How To Prevent Burnout)
Religious mindsets are not limited to religious environments (and why you must understand this to prevent burnout and avoid losing yourself.. again). Having walked alongside many hyper-achieving leaders in business
Even If You Lost Everything
Even if you lost EVERYTHING. Wealth. Relationships. Health. With God you would still be okay. Still be loved. Still be worthy. At different points in my life I HAVE lost
Where Was God?
Where was God when my ex was punching walls?Where was God when nobody believed me?Where was God when I was in so much pain I could barely function? After many
You Saw Through The Religious Facade. What Now?
It is you who’ve seen through the religious facade of the generations before you and it is you who will walk and lead others to a more authentic faith with
When Expectations Hurt
The hard lesson I learned is this: Sometimes we wound ourselves because of the expectations we have of others & God that they didn’t meet. Others aren’t obligated to meet
The Rules of Female Boundaries
A woman of high influence, standards and contribution cannot: A) HIDE behind boundaries (lack of self-trust) ANDB) IGNORE them (being nice) Here’s why: A dog in protection-mode (fight/flight – sympathetic
Reclaiming Personal Sovereignty After Religious Christianity
Today’s important topic is how to reclaim your personal sovereignty after, you know, maybe growing up in religion having an experience with religious Christianity. Maybe you were married to a
Stop Caring What Others Think Of You
It all sounds so terribly easy doesn’t it to just stop caring what others think of you and to just be your authentic self, especially when we’re talking about business,
You’re Not A “People Pleaser”
You’re not a “people pleaser” you’re a woman who has been conditioned to meet your core needs through others. There is no shame in this. The People Pleaser label is