The World Doesn’t Need More Good Christian Girls

The world doesn’t need more Good Christian Girls

The world needs unleashed women like Esther

Who despite her history as a girl trafficked into sexual slavery to the King

She owned who she was as Queen

And used her voice and position to confront the king

She spoke the truth

Even in the face of fear

Even in the face of death

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The world doesn’t need more Good Christian Girls

The world needs more brave women like Rahab

Who despite her history

Went against her culture and city

And used her voice

Her home and her resources

To hide spies for Team God

And believed God would come through

In the face of fear

In the face of threat

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The world doesn’t need more Good Christian Girls

The world needs more unleashed women like Mary Magdalene

Who despite her history of having seven demons

Was a devoted follower of Jesus

Not caring what others thought of her

She embraced her new transformed identity

And used her position to help fund Jesus’ ministry

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We don’t need more Good Christian Girls who hide their emotions

We need unleashed open-hearted women

Like the woman who washed Jesus feet with her tears

The text describes her as a woman who had lived a sinful life #relatable

Who boldly walked into the house of a Pharisee – a religious teacher – while they were dining

Whose heart was so open that she stood by Jesus

Overwhelmed with what – awe? Gratitude? Love?

She let her tears fall to his feet

Then knelt and wiped his feet with her hair

In front of the eyes of judgmental religious men

She no doubt felt overwhelming levels of shame

As they pointed out what she had done

However she deeply knew the immeasurable value of the man sitting in front of her

She no doubt felt love and compassion radiating from him

As she poured out extravagantly expensive perfume

And kissed his feet

Feet soon to be pierced for her

Not caring what the religious leaders thought of her

She vulnerably and open-heartedly displayed her affection for Him.

(I wonder should this occur in modern churches how she would be judged for how inappropriate, overly emotional and sensual she was being)

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No.

We don’t need more good Christian girls

Stuffing down their voices

Avoiding leadership

Pretending silence is godliness

And niceness is kindness

Holding everything together with a perfect facade

Avoiding their identity as Daughter of The King

We need women transformed by the truth

Being led by God

Powerfully speaking up

Vulnerably and open-heartedly facing the world

Bravely stepping into purpose

Without caring what others may think of them

It’s costly and frustrating to keep the good Christian girl facade going when you know you were born for more

When you feel him calling you into more for him

If you are finally ready to make the transition from Good Christian Girl to unleashed God-led CEO..

Not caring what anyone thinks of you except God himself

LS x

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You Left & Deconstructed Toxic Christianity – So Why Do You Still Abandon Yourself?

You thought you could leave “her” behind – your inner Good Christian Girl – the version of you you used to be – the version you’ve outgrown.. 

And you have tried. Maybe you left the church you grew up in, changed denominations, found new people.. maybe even deconstructed your faith.. 

But somehow – you’re not completely free of the identity you inherited, the identity that never fit, that required your constant compliance, silence, shrinking and pretzelling just to receive an ounce of belonging, power, acceptance, or even love.

And maybe you even see that she – this part of you that still sometimes makes an appearance – is at odds with the authentic, unapologetic leader you are now.. leading to alot of frustration.

You see – the Good Christian Girl Identity doesn’t just STAY in the past – she’s here with you right now, in your business when you silence yourself instead of owning who you are and what you do, she’s in your brand when you keep to the mould of what you “should” do vs fully owning who you ARE, and she’s in your energy when you step into PROVING ENERGY, chasing misaligned goals and clients – instead of bringing your work into alignment that would leave you energised and excited. 

The thing is though, the Good Christian Girl Identity isn’t about knowledge – we can KNOW in our minds that women are just as significant as men, and deserve a voice – but we still censor ourselves in moments we want to take a stand – particularly as female leaders.

The Good Christian Girl is not about knowledge – she has been conditioned through teachings, through osmosis, through time. Over and over again she has been affirmed for being small, compliant, quiet and fitting a certain mould..

This is where her safety comes from. And so we cannot simply just work harder to change her – we must address the roots of the pattern where the identity actually lives – in your body and subconscious mind.

And so trying to deconstruct your beliefs.

Giving yourself “permission”

Working hard to change your behaviour

Finding community that “understands”

Is not going to work. And over the last 14+ years I’ve been obsessively studying what does. 

Click here to download your free “GUIDE” and I’ll send you a copy of The Hidden Psychology of The Good Christian Girl Identity guide + playbook where I help you identify your fastest path towards your most unapologetic, wildly impactful YOU.

LS x

The Map To Your Freedom: The Spiritually Wealthy™ Master Map

I’m about to hand you the exact process you needed to break free from your Good Christian Girl Identity to become The Spiritually Wealthy Woman – the hyper achieving woman who is fully herself, walking closely with God and co-creating your impactful life’s work..

If you’re a hyper-achieving woman who grew up as a ‘Good Christian Girl’ – you don’t need anyone to give you PERMISSION to be who you already know you are: The Spiritually Wealthy CEO.

You already gave yourself permission.. you just keep hitting ceilings around your voice, vibrance, authority, business and calling – ceilings that, if they were eradicated in the next 8 weeks+, you would be UNSTOPPABLE – with God, without losing yourself.

This is the map to your freedom.

INTRODUCING

The Spiritually Wealthy Identity Master Map™

The Spiritually Wealthy™ Master Map - by Leah Samara SAMARA® © SAMARA® 2025-2026

Drawn on intellectual property I painstakingly yet lovingly created between 2021-2026, and further developed in its current form in 2025, The Master Map guides you – as a hyper-achieving woman born for more – to identify:

– “Where” you are in your ground-up identity evolution,
– What your next focus area is to become the woman who creates soul-aligned impact with God,
– What is possible for you when you follow The Spiritually Wealthy Identity™ methodology and
– Which of the SAMARA® or The Golden Goose® (both of Leah’s brands) suite of offers would be your most potent match to continue upgrading you to the next stage – this is called “The Ecosystem” below.

This is a trademark identity recalibration process lovingly-crafted over Leah’s 17+ years of expertise as a high-level strategist to high achievers across the globe.

Click here to explore the map – and your liberating next steps – in full.

LS x

The Hidden Psychology Of The Good Christian Girl Identity™

If you’re a hyper-achieving woman who grew up as a ‘Good Christian Girl’ and you keep hitting ceilings around your voice, vibrance, authority, business and calling – ceilings that, if they were eradicated in the next 90 days, you would be UNSTOPPABLE..

You don’t need anyone to give you PERMISSION to be who you already know you are, you already gave your damn self permission.

You don’t need more affirmations and mindset work that waste your time and give you little to show for it (other than alot of self blame and feeling not enough).

You don’t need to just “feel understood” –

Or “be less alone” in a community of “like minded” women who bond over their wounds and trauma and never grow.

You know your Good Christian Girl noise runs deeper than all of that – and you’re here for deep and thorough results this time.

Here’s what you actually need:

To deeply understand the hidden psychology of the Good Christian Girl Identity™.

Because until you understand just how DEEP this thing runs? You’ll be trying every surface level solution wondering why it’s not budging, and wondering if maybe there is something wrong with you.

I’m here to tell you – there is NOTHING wrong with you – you just need to understand her, and be handed the right strategies to decondition from the religious, familial and cultural conditioning you inherited – to release what is past, unlock your unapologetic era and forge your own path..

You were not born to settle, to lose yourself, to scale from misalignment and burnout.

You are highly resilient, brilliant and born to co-create wild levels of impact with God himself.

And it’s time to shine ✨

Click here to downloaod your free copy of my pro field guide & playbook now.

It’s packed with 16+ years in the arena with high-achieving professionals, along with 6+ years of studying and working with former Good Christian Girls.

This is deep work, and I’m invested in handing you the soul-nourishing short cuts to your freedom.

LS x

There Are Only 2 Things A Girl/Woman Can Be In Many Strict Religious Christian Spheres (Why You Dim Yourself Down):

In many religious circles, there are only 2 things a woman can be (why you dim yourself & your voice down):

In my deep observation, my own spiritual awakening and evolution journey and working with high achieving clients, I accidentally uncovered a dichotomy (two opposing ideas) in many religious circles.

And it’s something that, until this moment, I bet you actually deep down KNEW existed, but had struggled to put your finger on, or put words to. It’s this:

In most religious Christian circles, girls and women can only be ONE of two things – 

The Good Christian Girl / Good Christian Woman

OR

The Rebellious Woman / Harlot / Strong Independent Career Woman

Have you noticed this?

If you don’t fit the mold, toe the line, dim down your voice and opinions.. if you don’t PERFECTLY fit into the archetype of the Good Christian Girl, you are IMMEDIATELY labelled as the other.

And so develops this unnameable subconscious fear with deep (often unconscious) dialogue going a little something like this:

“I don’t want people to think I’m rebellious, or selfish, or immoral, or too independent.. so I’ll dim myself down”

The thing is, as women when we get to our 30s, 40s and beyond we get to a point where we are severely burnt out and literally CANNOT operate in this dichotomy – this pattern of self-abandonment and fear any longer.. 

But it’s like – how do we untangle from it all to be unapologetically ourselves, without becoming someone we’re not, but also not becoming something we fear (like being labelled rebellious)?

While ever we don’t feel safe to just BE, the full expression of authenticity cannot exist.

Join my next free workshop to begin untangling it all & be unapologetically YOU! 

Always seeing the magic in you,
LS x