You Left & Deconstructed Toxic Christianity – So Why Do You Still Abandon Yourself?

You thought you could leave “her” behind – your inner Good Christian Girl – the version of you you used to be – the version you’ve outgrown.. 

And you have tried. Maybe you left the church you grew up in, changed denominations, found new people.. maybe even deconstructed your faith.. 

But somehow – you’re not completely free of the identity you inherited, the identity that never fit, that required your constant compliance, silence, shrinking and pretzelling just to receive an ounce of belonging, power, acceptance, or even love.

And maybe you even see that she – this part of you that still sometimes makes an appearance – is at odds with the authentic, unapologetic leader you are now.. leading to alot of frustration.

You see – the Good Christian Girl Identity doesn’t just STAY in the past – she’s here with you right now, in your business when you silence yourself instead of owning who you are and what you do, she’s in your brand when you keep to the mould of what you “should” do vs fully owning who you ARE, and she’s in your energy when you step into PROVING ENERGY, chasing misaligned goals and clients – instead of bringing your work into alignment that would leave you energised and excited. 

The thing is though, the Good Christian Girl Identity isn’t about knowledge – we can KNOW in our minds that women are just as significant as men, and deserve a voice – but we still censor ourselves in moments we want to take a stand – particularly as female leaders.

The Good Christian Girl is not about knowledge – she has been conditioned through teachings, through osmosis, through time. Over and over again she has been affirmed for being small, compliant, quiet and fitting a certain mould..

This is where her safety comes from. And so we cannot simply just work harder to change her – we must address the roots of the pattern where the identity actually lives – in your body and subconscious mind.

And so trying to deconstruct your beliefs.

Giving yourself “permission”

Working hard to change your behaviour

Finding community that “understands”

Is not going to work. And over the last 14+ years I’ve been obsessively studying what does. 

Click here to download your free “GUIDE” and I’ll send you a copy of The Hidden Psychology of The Good Christian Girl Identity guide + playbook where I help you identify your fastest path towards your most unapologetic, wildly impactful YOU.

LS x

You Don’t Have To Choose Between God & Your Authentic Self

I’m Leah Samara,

I’m a Spiritual Identity & Brand Strategist who guides hyper-achieving former ‘Good Christian Girls’ to be closer to God and free to be your authentic self while co-creating a wildly impactful life – without losing yourself.

I grew up trying to be the Good Christian Girl – fully believing that I was ‘serving God’ with my self-abandonment – over-giving, self-silencing, people-pleasing, shrinking, playing small.. 

.. thinking I couldn’t be myself AND have a close connection with God.

In my mid-20s I developed a severe autoimmune disease while in a toxic marriage I thought I had to stay in because “God hates divorce” – and I hated God for it. I hated that he “made” me stay and pretend it wasn’t killing me to follow the rules and *maybe* make God happy with me. 

In my late 20s and close to the end of my marriage I had a spiritual awakening with Jesus – a supernatural experience with Jesus himself – completely different from my strict religious upbringing – and it forever changed me!

From then I began allowing God to recalibrate me to who it is that he made me to be – the real, unapologetic Leah – instead of the religious, familial and cultural boxes I was brought up in.

Over the last 6 years working with high achieving former ‘Good Christian Girl’ clients and over 16 years in my consulting businesses, I found that my story wasn’t unique – the patterns repeated in others, creating the same beliefs, identities and upper limits.

After walking this journey of awakening, resetting faith & true spiritual identity, reclaiming my unapologetic voice and self-expression, realigning my brand and business with God and now scaling this big, bold, meaningful life and legacy he’s recalibrated me to – I can say:

You don’t have to choose between your authentic self and being close to God – or choose between God and wild levels of impact.

In my world we hold all 3 at once!

I’m excited you’re here! Please see the captain for your snorkel & fins. We dive in the next 10 mins !

Click here for your copy of: “The Hidden Psychology of The Good Christian Girl Identity” Guide which shows you how to break free to co-create a wildly impactful life with God. 

LS x