Myth: “You just need to use your voice”

I had to share this with you, as I’m seeing some coaches talk about “using your voice” online as it seems to be the new popular thing to claim as your niche –

.. but their clients will wonder why their results don’t last because their work is not deep enough..

And as someone who has been working with hyper-achieving leading ladies for 16+ years in this space – I want to share with you why.

One of the biggest myths female visionaries, entrepreneurs & leaders who want to shed good girl conditioning & unlock more of their voice are told:

“You just need to use your voice”..

This is why this kind of teaching does not work:

1.You need to use your voice from your deepest, most honest level of authenticity..

(or you’ll simply be louder, but still speaking from religious/familial/societal conditioning instead of The Authentic YOU)

2.Your voice needs to be backed by unapologetic personal sovereignty..

(or despite your voice being louder, and even your words will be different – your energy will still be screaming “Good Girl”)

3.Your voice needs to be amplified by a clear message for your revolution..

(or you’ll just become more noise, lost in an already crowded online space)

4. You voice needs to be backed by unshakeable faith – deeply knowing you are protected & sustained by God himself.

(or you won’t be able to take a stand for the things that matter and stay on-purpose, while others disagree or even throw hate your way and hold the energy of being fully yourself)

This is The Recalibration Experience.

Recalibrate your faith, your identity, voice & magic, your message & brand, and your revolution so everything you touch is aligned clean, focused, magnetic. This isn’t a micro step — it’s a strategic reset that changes the trajectory of everything that comes next.

  • Immediate clarity: Walk away with a reset in faith, identity, and message that shows you — with certainty — that you’re not “too far gone,” “too late,” or “too much.”
  • Unlock of possibility: Feel the magnetic shift of moving from your God-led, undimmable self. The results? Clean, precise, powerful energy behind every move.
  • The beginning: You’ll leave knowing — in your bones — that the woman you’ve dreamt of being isn’t a fantasy. She’s already here, only REFINEMENTS away from her next level and vision!

These are the first steps of your most potent realignment in real time, custom-designed to bring freedom, clarity and potency to your world and brand!

Backed by my proven 4-part framework developed from founding multiple premium brands and working with hyper-achieving entrepreneurial women to fully unleash themselves & their voices for over 16+ years.

Click here to join The Recalibration Experience now to recalibrate your faith, magic, message & revolution so everything you touch is aligned, focused & magnetic!

LS x

How To Stand Up For Yourself Without Exploding In Anger

I used to go from 0 (Nice Christian Girl/Good Girl—compliant and quiet) to 1000 mph (psycho angry Leah) before exploding. Now I stand up for myself instead.. you can too.

I would bottle it up for a longgg time before the inevitable eruption happened because I literally couldn’t hold it in any longer.

Instead of using my voice, I would bite my tongue, be nice, take it and take it, try to be forgiving, try to show grace, try to be like Jesus, pray about it, try to reframe how I thought about it, avoid situations and people that would trigger it…

All of which required a lot of maintenance and energy. All of which actually ENABLED others to treat me however they liked (but that’s probably a post for another day).

The problem was this:
I didn’t know HOW to use my voice appropriately, and because I didn’t know how, when I was triggered I would explode—which led to me not trusting my voice fully.

The problem was NOT the fact that I would explode, or that I didn’t trust my voice…

It was that I had never been shown how to properly use my voice to stand up for myself, voice my opinions, and stand for what really mattered to me in a healthy, balanced, regulated way (without becoming someone I wasn’t, or ruining all the relationships around me); AND I had received conditioning I that told me that being a nice, silent, Good Christian Girl was what God (and men) wanted from me.

You don’t need another self-help book or a surface-level communication workshop. 

You don’t need more guilt-laden advice to “be like Jesus” while ignoring the power and authority He’s given you.

Without appropriate adult female models, we are left in our protective mechanisms, sometimes floundering, trying to work it out ourselves.

You can feel when it’s not working. You try harder, bottle it up longer, and hope the next time will be different… but it’s not.

This cycle of silence, eruption, and guilt takes a toll. It robs you of your peace, your confidence, and the ability to trust yourself. It impacts your relationships, your work, and even your faith.

But it doesn’t have to stay this way.

You don’t need to keep carrying this weight. What you need is to unlearn the toxic beliefs that keep you silent and reclaim your voice in a way that feels powerful, regulated, and authentic.

That’s exactly what we do in my Free To Be You Mastermind.

This isn’t just about learning to “speak up.” It’s about uncovering the version of you that’s silenced herself for far too long—the bold, unapologetic, aligned woman you were always meant to be.

Imagine using your voice with clarity and conviction, standing firm for what matters most to you, and showing up powerfully (and REGULATED) in communication in your relationships and work without fear or guilt.

You can learn to trust your voice, even if you never have before. You can use your voice to stand for what matters most without burning bridges—or yourself out.

Join my next free workshop to take your first step: Workshop Link.

Or PM me to claim your seat in the Free To Be You Mastermind—only a few positions left this year.

Always seeing the magic in you,
LS x