You Can’t Be Authentic While Working Hard AGAINST The Toxic Religious & Masculine Conditioning Your Grew Up With

Some of you are working so hard AGAINST the toxic religious & masculine conditioning you grew up with around AUTHORITY that it’s limiting your potential now

 .. it’s directly impacting your ability to show up now, as a female leader in HEALTHY authority & voice in your mission.

I GET IT. I grew up with it. I married it. I bound myself to communities with it.

(And then I divorced it, untangled myself from it, deconditioned it and now I work with others to do the same)

We always overcompensate for any area of trauma and conditioning we haven’t released/rewired.

It’s hard to show up powerfully in an area you felt powerless.

It’s hard to show up authentically in an area you hated.

It’s hard not to swing to the opposite end of the pendulum when you haven’t fully untangled, deconditioned & rewired it.

If you grew up in controlling religious environments or controlling family, or particularly narcissistic/controlling father..

And you are an entrepreneurial woman now who is ready for her unapologetic era (but in a healthy way that supports her wellbeing and authentic honest faith) this post is for you.

I see SO MUCH MORE for you than to still be bound (for whenever we are against our past, we are still bound by it)

I see your authentic self.. under the layers of fighting against. Under the layers of your inner Good Christian Girl who is still there (otherwise you wouldn’t need to fight so hard against it)..

And I can lead you to freedom on the other side –

Free to be you

Free to use your voice

Free to be your weird, quirky self

Free to create the highest level of impact you were born for

This is a part of the work – seeing that working so hard against it is also limiting you, desiring freedom and doing the deep work to cut the chains so that the generations that come behind you are also liberated to truth and authenticity vs living in reaction.

This is the “work” that we do in my world (that I’ve been told is FUN!).

Click here to join my next free workshop to untangle and embrace your freedom!

LS x

“I’m Going To Be The Very Thing You Didn’t Want Me To Be” Is Not Being Unapologetically YOU.

“I’m going to be the very thing you didn’t want me to be” is not being unapologetically you, it’s a trauma response. 

(Eg. You grew up with religious parents who encouraged Good Christian Girl conditioning)

And now you understandably push back on all things religious Christianity.. even if a part of you feels disconnected and maybe even kind of misses aspects

The way you push back (fight) against who they tried to mould you into (eg. The Good Christian Girl Archetype) determines how much of your true self you actually get to claim back so you are free to be you.

The truly empowered woman doesn’t try to fit or try not to fit a label.

She just, is.

I can guide you into this freedom when you are finally ready to meet the REAL her.

Claim your free seat at my next workshop to untangle from it here.

Always seeing you in your magic,

LS x

There Are Only 2 Things A Girl/Woman Can Be In Many Conservative Christian Spheres (Why You Dim Yourself Down):

In many conservative religious circles, there are only 2 things a woman can be (why you dim yourself & your voice down):

In my deep observation, my own spiritual awakening and evolution journey and working with high achieving clients, I accidentally uncovered a dichotomy (two opposing ideas) in many religious circles.

And it’s something that, until this moment, I bet you actually deep down KNEW existed, but had struggled to put your finger on, or put words to. It’s this:

In most religious Christian circles, girls and women can only be ONE of two things – 

The Good Christian Girl / Good Christian Woman

OR

The Rebellious Woman / Harlot / Strong Independent Career Woman

Have you noticed this?

If you don’t fit the mold, toe the line, dim down your voice and opinions.. if you don’t PERFECTLY fit into the archetype of the Good Christian Girl, you are IMMEDIATELY labelled as the other.

And so develops this unnameable subconscious fear with deep (often unconscious) dialogue going a little something like this:

“I don’t want people to think I’m rebellious, or selfish, or immoral, or too independent.. so I’ll dim myself down”

The thing is, as women when we get to our 30s, 40s and beyond we get to a point where we are severely burnt out and literally CANNOT operate in this dichotomy – this pattern of self-abandonment and fear any longer.. 

But it’s like – how do we untangle from it all to be unapologetically ourselves, without becoming someone we’re not, but also not becoming something we fear (like being labelled rebellious)?

While ever we don’t feel safe to just BE, the full expression of authenticity cannot exist.

Join my next free workshop to begin untangling it all & be unapologetically YOU! 

Always seeing the magic in you,
LS x

How To Stop Dimming Yourself Down & Silencing Your Voice.

You’re a powerhouse—a high-achieving, visionary businesswoman. So why do you still find yourself dimming your light or biting your tongue in rooms where you should be fully seen and heard?

You want to…

  • Be fully and unapologetically yourself.
  • Own & use your voice to lead with authority.
  • Show up authentically in your relationships and your life.

Because your role demands it. You need to use your voice to lead your team, command respect, and bring your vision to life. You need your voice to stand out online as the authority you are. You need the freedom to say NO to what doesn’t align with your values and goals.

And yet, there’s a hesitation.

Here’s what might really be going on:

SHIFT #1: There’s nothing wrong with you! It’s past conditioning.

The urge to hold back or silence yourself didn’t come from nowhere. It’s conditioning—layers of expectations, rules, and beliefs from family, society, and even faith. None of this was your choice, and it’s not an indication of your value or strength.

This isn’t a flaw—it’s a past pattern. And I’m here to guide you to break free.

SHIFT #2: Trying to change this consciously is the hard way.

This conditioning is deeply rooted in your subconscious mind. It’s like a program running quietly in the background, reinforcing this habit of staying quiet or playing small.

But the good news? You don’t need to force it, nor do you need hypnotherapy. You need to access and befriend the parts of yourself that are still carrying these old beliefs. They are ready to release when you’re ready to meet them.

SHIFT #3: “If I am unapologetically myself, I will lose people.”

Yes, there’s a chance that stepping into your fullest self may disrupt certain relationships. But here’s the truth: you’ll be okay, no matter what. This is where your personal power lies.

When you no longer need approval or validation from others—when you feel truly seen, known, and loved by God—your value becomes rooted in Him. You’re free from the need to pretzel yourself to be who others expect you to be.

You can stand firmly as you are, even when others have their opinions or feelings. None of that has anything to do with you.

SHIFT #4: Do it for the women who come after you.

Imagine your daughters or younger women in your sphere. Imagine the power they’d inherit from watching you speak, live, and lead unapologetically. Liberate them by liberating yourself.

Your voice is powerful. You can be the one to break generational cycles of silence and shrinkage. You can free generations of women to speak their truth, to own their space, and to live fully in the light.

Ready to finally step into the full strength of your voice and purpose?

Click the link to join the Free To Be You Mastermind—where you’ll learn to break through these patterns, claim your voice, and lead the way you were always meant to.

LS x