I’m about to hand you the exact process you needed to break free from your Good Christian Girl Identity to become The Spiritually Wealthy Woman – the hyper achieving woman who is fully herself, walking closely with God and co-creating your impactful life’s work..
If you’re a hyper-achieving woman who grew up as a ‘Good Christian Girl’ – you don’t need anyone to give you PERMISSION to be who you already know you are: The Spiritually Wealthy CEO.
You already gave yourself permission.. you just keep hitting ceilings around your voice, vibrance, authority, business and calling – ceilings that, if they were eradicated in the next 8 weeks+, you would be UNSTOPPABLE – with God, without losing yourself.
Drawn on intellectual property I painstakingly yet lovingly created between 2021-2026, and further developed in its current form in 2025, The Master Map guides you – as a hyper-achieving woman born for more – to identify:
– “Where” you are in your ground-up identity evolution, – What your next focus area is to become the woman who creates soul-aligned impact with God, – What is possible for you when you follow The Spiritually Wealthy Identity™ methodology and – Which of the SAMARA® or The Golden Goose® (both of Leah’s brands) suite of offers would be your most potent match to continue upgrading you to the next stage – this is called “The Ecosystem” below.
This is a trademark identity recalibration process lovingly-crafted over Leah’s 17+ years of expertise as a high-level strategist to high achievers across the globe.
If you’re a hyper-achieving woman who grew up as a ‘Good Christian Girl’ and you keep hitting ceilings around your voice, vibrance, authority, business and calling – ceilings that, if they were eradicated in the next 90 days, you would be UNSTOPPABLE..
You don’t need anyone to give you PERMISSION to be who you already know you are, you already gave your damn self permission.
You don’t need more affirmations and mindset work that waste your time and give you little to show for it (other than alot of self blame and feeling not enough).
You don’t need to just “feel understood” –
Or “be less alone” in a community of “like minded” women who bond over their wounds and trauma and never grow.
You know your Good Christian Girl noise runs deeper than all of that – and you’re here for deep and thorough results this time.
Here’s what you actually need:
To deeply understand the hidden psychology of the Good Christian Girl Identity™.
Because until you understand just how DEEP this thing runs? You’ll be trying every surface level solution wondering why it’s not budging, and wondering if maybe there is something wrong with you.
I’m here to tell you – there is NOTHING wrong with you – you just need to understand her, and be handed the right strategies to decondition from the religious, familial and cultural conditioning you inherited – to release what is past, unlock your unapologetic era and forge your own path..
You were not born to settle, to lose yourself, to scale from misalignment and burnout.
You are highly resilient, brilliant and born to co-create wild levels of impact with God himself.
It’s packed with 16+ years in the arena with high-achieving professionals, along with 6+ years of studying and working with former Good Christian Girls.
This is deep work, and I’m invested in handing you the soul-nourishing short cuts to your freedom.
Breaking free from The Good Christian Girl Identity™ requires mastery of the whole ecosystem –
Theology, psychology/trauma, identity, energetics, leadership, and years of learning to walk in Holy Spirit-led faith and surrender.
.. and, particularly for the hyper-achieving women who are ready to unapologetically co-create extraordinary impact – business and brand strategy – brand strategy is to package and position you and your work after this transformation with clear aligned messaging to your unique niche.
This is why your pastor, psychologist, business coach, sales coach, relationship coach, nor random online content creator speaking about “good girl” anything are not, nor will ever be – enough for you in this arena.
You’ve outgrown them all and are ready for your next level of breakthrough, with a guide experienced at navigating the entire elaborate ecosystem.
The depth always and only speaks to those destined for the extraordinary. The depth is my specialty.
Recently I was reminded how I reclaimed my voice and sovereignty from unhealthy and controlling religious men.
A male family member who had abandoned me after I wouldn’t obey/submit to him reached out to me. No apology just expectation of access. It was graciously denied.
I won’t go into the whole story, but wanted to share this:
I come from a religious Christian family where most of the men seem to believe they have authority over me simply because I’m a woman.
Where my and the other females in my family had a role. That role was to always “respect” and “obey” and “submit” to them..
Regardless of whether they deserved it
Regardless of how I felt about it
Regardless of their treatment of me.
But because God supposedly said so.
Where not doing so came with consequences:
Male adult tantrums
The silent treatment (for weeks on end while they were still being served of course)
Abandonment
Religious abuse
Estrangement – some decided by me, some not.
I distinctly felt this kick into a higher gear after my divorce over a decade ago..
After I stood up to and left ex (who was also obsessed with my “submission” to him)
After I drew a line in the sand
After I began finding myself, voice and sovereignty.
Where the unspoken rule is that I supposedly left my ex-husband’s authority and returned to theirs (for a sinful woman like Eve who was easily deceived surely needs the “covering” of man to navigate the world lol).
.. which clashed more with newly-divorced adult Leah who was finding her sovereignty more than Little Good Christian Girl Leah ever did.
Yet despite all this..
Through my spiritual awakening with and in Jesus – freedom upon freedom came:
I found my peace, my voice, my sanity, my Spiritual Wealth™.
A cup so full, breadcrumbs no longer felt like a banquet
Control no longer felt normal
And low effort no longer an event I felt obligated to attend.
What came was a deep sense of my significance – that despite everything I was conditioned to believe about myself as a person and particularly a woman, that I was and am so deeply valued by and delighted in by God himself ..
Meaning I was so satisfied and fulfilled that, as I allowed God access to the different parts of my heart, I stopped chasing what was misaligned, what wasn’t good for me, who wasn’t good for me.
A gained the space, freedom, courage to be my authentic self, without constantly performing a persona to be approved of
I gained CLARITY and direction around what was and was not for me
A voice so strong I no longer go unheard – nor do I stay in spaces who refuse me a voice at the table..
And so much more.
Im FREE to no longer perform for family
Sweeping things under the rug and pretending it’s all fine
Swallowing family dysfunction
Enabling others in their dysfunction
I know I’m likely to be seen as rebellious, difficult, unforgiving and selfish for these.
And I honestly just don’t care anymore – not in a faux powerful way, but in a neutral “meh” kind of way
Because one the biggest gifts this has all given me is freedom from what they, my family and others, think of me.
AND BY A GENUINE MIRACLE – instead of becoming a bitter woman, I somehow found joy, authenticity, communion and balance instead.
Not hating men and tarring them all with the “all men are bad” brush, but holding certain men accountable.
Not blaming God for the actions of men, but holding certain men accountable.
I’m so proud of the sovereign woman I am today.
Not shrinking back
Silencing myself
Making myself small
Not bowing to the darkness in my bloodline
Owning my voice
Protecting my peace from the endless toxic loops of people who never change.
And for those of you who need to hear it:
There does come a time when estrangement is holy.
Where distance is actually protection, God’s protection.
Where distraction is from darkness.
Where the past is a thief of identity
Where the darkness flowing from those called “family” should be silenced (as Jesus did).
God will use their abandonment and neglect of you for YOUR good, I promise –
It’s time to step into your full sovereignty and be who you were born to be – without their approval.
As former Good Christian Girls, it’s often at the feet of our mothers where we learned our first embodied lessons of self-abandonment disguised under the label of holiness.
Where we first learned to silence both ourselves and our inner knowing; as if something were deeply wrong with both feminine intuition and voice.
Where we learned to suppress our needs and desires; as if experiencing joy or pleasure itself somehow made us “bad” and “selfish”.
Where we first learned our value as women was in our serving and serving to the point of burnout; or that we were less valuable than men purely because of our gender.
These were never lessons we were sat down and taught in the same way that we learned the alphabet, but it are lessons absorbed, while sitting at the feet of our mothers, like the dutiful Good Christian Girls we were conditioned to be.
Absorbed in such a way that, when we move outside of the constraints of these “lessons”, that our nervous systems become dysregulated.. and we experience upper limits in life today.
As adults it can feel as if questioning this, bringing it up and initiating any kind of accountability is bringing women down or “mother blaming” women for the failures and impacts of a patriarchal society.
This isn’t about mother blaming. It’s worth noting that as a generation we have access to so much more freedom, support and resources than our mothers, grandmothers and generations before them ever did and this is worthy of reflection..
AND – While they may have done the best they could, there are very real impacts leading from not ONLY their lack of freedom, but their choices bleeding into our lives today.
This doesn’t mean we hate our mothers but it can create a complex relationship with both ourselves and our mothers that resurfaces annually on Mother’s Day..
And this is something to be grieved and healed.
But alongside the grieving – a complex walk I have personally taken –
The most beautiful thing I’ve experienced along this journey of healing and awakening is this:
I didn’t need to have the perfect childhood
The perfect mother
The perfect upbringing and mothering
In order to be nourished, heard, comforted and supported NOW..
Or in order to break free of the religious and familial conditioning that leads to automatic self silencing, suppression, stifling and self abandonment now.
The most beautiful thing is that God himself has stepped into not just my past wounds –
But into my world now, not just as perfect father healing my past, guiding me to truth, sovereignty, and secure attachment and so much more – but also in the role of mother.
This was not something I was expecting at all, as I grew up with the SCRIPTURE IS CLEAR crowd, God is always a man..
And it’s not even about the gender of God.
But one day was speaking to God while doing some inner work..
And was saying to him – “God I feel so healed from my father wounds. I feel so much more secure and protected and safe. And I deeply feel that YOU are now my actual Father which has been so healing and nourishing.. but I don’t feel that way about my mother wounds.”
“I sense that you are strong and protective as my Father, but when it comes to doing the inner work around my mother wounds, sometimes I just want a mother to hold me, to comfort me.”
And this was when he revealed to me that, if I allowed, the Holy Spirit has this same role (of “mother”) in my life and it blew my mind. That God in his multi faceted nature always provides exactly what I need.
The comfort
Nourishment
Feeling heard
Being supported
Without the dysfunction or strings that often come with it is available to me.
That day I learned at a deeper level a lesson I want to share with you today; that He himself is my comfort.
He is the perfect nurturing, consistent comfort and constant source of nourishment and he is here for me – and you.
“As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you.” Isaiah 66:13
God himself has become the foundation on which I am being rebuilt into the Spiritually Wealthy Woman God designed me to be – not from people-pleasing, performance or self abandonment – but from a deep resurrection from the generational toxicity and religious dysfunction handed down to me that only brought death to my life.
And that simple thing – that the Holy Spirit IS my mother, whispering life and comfort into places I previously believed unreachable, life into my conditioned perceived limits and awakening into my most powerful, sovereign, Spiritual Wealthy future
Co-creating with God in all his facets and quirks and qualities
To do my life’s work, and be the woman who owns her voice, her message and writing this today
Has been so healing and life changing.
So today my challenge for you today is this –
Yes today may be challenging and complex but you are not that little Good Christian Girl anymore who shrinks back and silences..
You are no longer a powerless little girl..
You are sovereign, strong and incredible woman destined to release incredible legacy and work into the world.
So here’s the challenge:
Invite THE Holy Spirit (be very clear you only want to speak to The Holy Spirit) about any lack that is surfacing for you today, whether that’s a feeling of current lack in your relationship with your mother, past lack from what you felt you didn’t receive or the future impacts you project from it..
And allow the resurrection and the LIFE to guide you into wholeness in those places so that you can live – not out of generational curses, but from generational life and legacy.
I had to share this with you, as I’m seeing some coaches talk about “using your voice” online as it seems to be the new popular thing to claim as your niche –
.. but their clients will wonder why their results don’t last because their work is not deep enough..
And as someone who has been working with hyper-achieving leading ladies for 16+ years in this space – I want to share with you why.
One of the biggest myths female visionaries, entrepreneurs & leaders who want to shed good girl conditioning & unlock more of their voice are told:
“You just need to use your voice”..
This is why this kind of teaching does not work:
1.You need to use your voice from your deepest, most honest level of authenticity..
(or you’ll simply be louder, but still speaking from religious/familial/societal conditioning instead of The Authentic YOU)
2.Your voice needs to be backed by unapologetic personal sovereignty..
(or despite your voice being louder, and even your words will be different – your energy will still be screaming “Good Girl”)
3.Your voice needs to be amplified by a clear message for your revolution..
(or you’ll just become more noise, lost in an already crowded online space)
4. You voice needs to be backed by unshakeable faith – deeply knowing you are protected & sustained by God himself.
(or you won’t be able to take a stand for the things that matter and stay on-purpose, while others disagree or even throw hate your way and hold the energy of being fully yourself)
This is The Recalibration Experience.
Recalibrate your faith, your identity, voice & magic, your message & brand, and your revolution so everything you touch is aligned clean, focused, magnetic. This isn’t a micro step — it’s a strategic reset that changes the trajectory of everything that comes next.
Immediate clarity: Walk away with a reset in faith, identity, and message that shows you — with certainty — that you’re not “too far gone,” “too late,” or “too much.”
Unlock of possibility: Feel the magnetic shift of moving from your God-led, undimmable self. The results? Clean, precise, powerful energy behind every move.
The beginning: You’ll leave knowing — in your bones — that the woman you’ve dreamt of being isn’t a fantasy. She’s already here, only REFINEMENTS away from her next level and vision!
These are the first steps of your most potent realignment in real time, custom-designed to bring freedom, clarity and potency to your world and brand!
Backed by my proven 4-part framework developed from founding multiple premium brands and working with hyper-achieving entrepreneurial women to fully unleash themselves & their voices for over 16+ years.
I wrote this post on Facebook this week and felt to share it with you..
This is written entrepreneurial woman to entrepreneurial woman. I have worked in this space for over a decade and watch as the same Good Girl/Good Christian Girl patterns surface again and again..
This is not as a political piece. It’s about the masks we wear, the way we believe we have to push through and the deep rest from the pressures of the world – the weight of obligation and expectation – that’s available to every one of us.
Enjoy x
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This is how I would guide Erika Kirk right now, as a Spiritual Guide & Leadership Mentor for hyper-achieving women, based on what I see:
(Please note: A normal client relationship is based on what I see + potent questions to uncover truth + what I see in the answers. This analysis is only based on what I see so is understandably limited, and making some assumptions).
I just finished watching your speech last night
And phewww absolutely incredible that you had the strength to stand up and do that. I know so many are standing in awe of you right now..
And I can see you did it for Charlie and his cause, and for God. But I also see the tremendous toll and cost on you.
Your face that said you were anything but ready to forgive
Your eyes that still hold tremendous and understandable levels of unprocessed anger
Your body that cannot have had much time this week to rest, reset, process and grieve in between all of the obligations.
Time to be human.
Time to be a grieving wife.
Time to break apart.
And I also see a woman who, like I used to be, fully believes that she has to hold it all together right now for everyone else..
A woman who is so good at wearing that good Christian woman mask – and is celebrated for it:
To sacrifice all of her needs on the altar of obligation and “spreading the gospel”.
A woman carrying the weight of the salvation of the world along with the weight of her own grief while making challenging decisions, running companies, and being a mum to two children who just lost their daddy..
And I can only imagine how bone-deep your exhaustion must run.
As the adrenaline wears off
And the admiration of the crowd dies down that was numbing over the heart wrenching loss and deep shock you experienced
And the grief sets in..
I hope you’ll allow yourself time to be
With yourself
And with God
Without the heavy mask of being the perfect Christian wife and woman..
Without feeling like the salvation of the world is yours to carry (Because it’s not, and never was..)
Without worrying what others will think or how they will react to you taking what you need
And without the pressure to keep showing up as you have done this week. I hope you’ll find another way to honour Charlie’s legacy
That doesn’t require your complete self abandonment, your perfection, your performance
Without obligation and guilt
Where you find another way to cope other than the good Christian woman mask
Where you’ll not only be focused on giving love but that you will stop long enough to receive it, too
And where you’ll allow God to fully carry you, to surrender, release and allow his peace and rest to enter your realm.
If Charlie’s work was truly a move of and with God.. Then his legacy and the work will never fall apart
Because the source is still here.
And that source is holding space for you right now to fall apart
The world will understand if we don’t see you for twelve months because you can’t get out of bed
The world will understand if you need to get daily therapy, curl up on your Pyjamas, hold your babies and weep.
And I’m sure Charlie, even if only for the way that that man looked at you with that grin and sparkle in his eyes, will understand your need to grieve the loss of him and all that you had together.
The only thing that matters right now in your world is the wellbeing of this beautiful woman
Who has lost so much
So that she has the capacity to look after herself
And her two beautiful kids after such shock and loss.
It can be incredibly frustrating to know that you’re smart, sparkly and brilliant..
Yet find yourself dimming your OWN light, silencing your OWN voice and playing smaller than what you know damn-well you’re fully capable of.
This is the pattern that former “good girls” and “Good Christian Girls” come up against all the time, leaving them feeling frustrated, anxious and even burnt out.
Because they fight so hard AGAINST this conditioning and these patterns.. only to walk away spinning their wheels and feeling exhausted.
Lady – I HAVE FOUND AN EASIER WAY!!!
And it’s NOT about:
working HARDER or consciously going against your conditioning, just “shutting your inner critic up and putting her in the trunk of your car” kinda vibes
constantly regulating your nervous system through meditations, breath work, visualisation, yoga or even praying more
taking a break/sabbatical or just “resting more”
constantly tweaking/realigning your business or investing in a new marketing, business, sales or even mindset coach.
There IS a way to break-free from past conditioning that keeps you dimming down when you know you’re born to shine bright & serve your people at the highest level..
.. so that you can be fully, unapologetically and authentically yourself in your life and business (and maybe even in your faith)
.. without bending to cancel culture or the expectations of others!
And I’m going to share my simple, trauma-informed framework with you during my new free workshop:
(Without Burnout, your Inner Critic, or Religious Mindsets Dimming Your Vibe)
This workshop isn’t about adding more to your plate, burning your business down or changing who you are—it’s about uncovering and breaking FREE from the exact root of what’s slowing you down so you can scale your impact, break generational chains and do work that matters.
This is ONLY for the female coach, expert, leader or influencer who is highly driven and absolutely refuses to dim down her magic, vibrance and voice anymore!
If you’re ready to shine bright, live fully, and unlock your next-level impact – WITHOUT BURNOUT –
Your most aligned life, business & dream clients are waiting and I can’t wait to guide you there!
LS x
PS. This will be one of your last chances to work with me closely in 2025. If you’ve been drawn to my work and want me to draw the UNTAPPED GOLD from you so you can tap into the potential running through your veins – don’t miss it.
You don’t need more meditation or breathwork to find your calm; you need to reclaim sovereignty over the part of you that is dysregulated b/c she seeks others to mirror her worth, significance & greatness.
The need to constantly calm and seek out nervous system regulation is only there because your system is constantly being triggered into dysregulated states.
Yes you may be in sympathetic and in need of nervous system regulation – but no you don’t need to WORK HARD to get there.
You need to find your hidden switch (trigger) and turn it off (by claiming your God-given sovereignty and worth over it) so the intelligent design of your physiology does the work for you.
This is where your underlying ‘Good Christian Girl Identity’ comes in..
Because you’re experiencing the anxiety, the burnout and dimming yourself down because deep down you don’t feel free to be you.
You have to wear the mask and perform and be perfect and please everyone because of religious and familial conditioning that says this is how you BECOME ENOUGH, this is how you prove you are WORTHY.
You seek out OTHERS to mirror back to you how worthy, significant or great you are because effectively you’re asking “Am I doing it? Being perfect? Is my mask in place?”..
And people will always gladly mirror it back to you because most people have issues with people pleasing!!! (Which keeps you in slavery to your conditioning, not freedom).
So EVEN IF you’re outside of this conditioning now, you now abandon yourself automatically because the conditioning is embedded in your subconscious mind – so working hard against it doesn’t work.
>> This is why holidays/sabbaticals, meditation, burn your business down, mindset coaching, leadership seminars, breath work, self help books and affirmations will only get you so far.
They’re temporary solutions to a root that is deeper than they can reach.
You need Subconscious Sovereignty – a trauma-informed process that by-passes the surface-level tactics you’ve invested in before to target your unique hidden spiritual and psychological conditioning deeply at the roots and connects you to your Authentic Self so you are free to be fully yourself in life, faith and business.
It gently peels back the layers of who you think you need to be and reconnects you to who you actually are.
The Subconscious Sovereignty™ Framework gives you the tools you need to:
Break the cycle of burnout and self-abandonment for good.
Step into the unapologetic, bold leader you were created to be.
Build a life and business that feels as authentic as breathing.
Experience God’s love and gentle guidance in a way that fuels your courage and creativity. (Even if you currently feel distant from Him)
I’m giving you a glimpse into my client-only Subconscious Sovereignty™ Framework in my new workshop:
When my focus was on being a “good Christian” or a “good person”, my focus was on trying to be something outside of me. An ideal. I’m still trying to fit a mould.
I’m still in perfectionism, pushing, forcing proving energy..
Which is STILL self-abandonment.
And when we are in Self-Abandonment Mode, we cannot just be. There’s always a measure, a standard.
And it’s never enough
Meaning that INSTEAD OF shining bright, being fully and unapologetically yourself, owning and using your voice, being anchored in your worth, uniqueness and just who you are and loving God and being in his presence..
You’re focused on trying to be something. Its a lot of energy and effort we weren’t born to expend
So in order to just be my full, sparkly self..
Who is imperfect
And does her best
I just sit with Jesus. I have conversations with him.
And I let him change me.
I dont try to be this or that.
I surrender and allow his goodness, love and grace to wash over me and be a salve to the parts of me that need to transform.
So instead of burning myself out, making myself anxious in performance and self abandonment, I get to pause and be refilled and restored by the ultimate restorer: the God of the universe who made me and loves me immeasurably.
I get to be my authentic, amazing, fun, sparkly, imperfect self who is evolving and growing and changing
I just get to BE.
This also leaves no space for my ego to sit in pride above others. It’s a beautiful, humble, vulnerable place to be.
(a radically different Leah than the one who used to sit in religious judgment over everyone..)
… And can I just say – it is SO LIBERATING!
Trying to be a “good person” after you’ve left your religious background, is just the same religious thinking without Christianity tied to it. You are still not free. This is still the thing causing anxiety and burnout. This is still the loud inner critic rumbling around in the background.
You don’t have to live this way – the FIRST thing we will do when we work together is to untangle all of your conditioning so you can BREATHE DEEPLY again without the pressure sitting on your chest.
By the way, if you want to be more of your AUTHENTIC & undimmable self in your life, business and/or faith instead of trying to be a something that you’re not..
PS. “Good person” or “good Christian” by whose standards? By which person, church, denomination? Because we all don’t agree. This is why I only care to sit with God.
I don’t even care for my own standards of “Good Person”, I’ve learned I carry enough conditioning and bias for even that to not be good enough
working HARDER or consciously going against your conditioning, just “shutting your inner critic up and putting her in the trunk of your car” kinda vibes
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