Myth: “You just need to use your voice”

I had to share this with you, as I’m seeing some coaches talk about “using your voice” online as it seems to be the new popular thing to claim as your niche –

.. but their clients will wonder why their results don’t last because their work is not deep enough..

And as someone who has been working with hyper-achieving leading ladies for 16+ years in this space – I want to share with you why.

One of the biggest myths female visionaries, entrepreneurs & leaders who want to shed good girl conditioning & unlock more of their voice are told:

“You just need to use your voice”..

This is why this kind of teaching does not work:

1.You need to use your voice from your deepest, most honest level of authenticity..

(or you’ll simply be louder, but still speaking from religious/familial/societal conditioning instead of The Authentic YOU)

2.Your voice needs to be backed by unapologetic personal sovereignty..

(or despite your voice being louder, and even your words will be different – your energy will still be screaming “Good Girl”)

3.Your voice needs to be amplified by a clear message for your revolution..

(or you’ll just become more noise, lost in an already crowded online space)

4. You voice needs to be backed by unshakeable faith – deeply knowing you are protected & sustained by God himself.

(or you won’t be able to take a stand for the things that matter and stay on-purpose, while others disagree or even throw hate your way and hold the energy of being fully yourself)

This is The Recalibration Experience.

Recalibrate your faith, your identity, voice & magic, your message & brand, and your revolution so everything you touch is aligned clean, focused, magnetic. This isn’t a micro step — it’s a strategic reset that changes the trajectory of everything that comes next.

  • Immediate clarity: Walk away with a reset in faith, identity, and message that shows you — with certainty — that you’re not “too far gone,” “too late,” or “too much.”
  • Unlock of possibility: Feel the magnetic shift of moving from your God-led, undimmable self. The results? Clean, precise, powerful energy behind every move.
  • The beginning: You’ll leave knowing — in your bones — that the woman you’ve dreamt of being isn’t a fantasy. She’s already here, only REFINEMENTS away from her next level and vision!

These are the first steps of your most potent realignment in real time, custom-designed to bring freedom, clarity and potency to your world and brand!

Backed by my proven 4-part framework developed from founding multiple premium brands and working with hyper-achieving entrepreneurial women to fully unleash themselves & their voices for over 16+ years.

Click here to join The Recalibration Experience now to recalibrate your faith, magic, message & revolution so everything you touch is aligned, focused & magnetic!

LS x

Dear Erika Kirk.

I wrote this post on Facebook this week and felt to share it with you..

This is written entrepreneurial woman to entrepreneurial woman. I have worked in this space for over a decade and watch as the same Good Girl/Good Christian Girl patterns surface again and again..

This is not as a political piece. It’s about the masks we wear, the way we believe we have to push through and the deep rest from the pressures of the world – the weight of obligation and expectation – that’s available to every one of us.

Enjoy x

__________________________

This is how I would guide Erika Kirk right now, as a Spiritual Guide & Leadership Mentor for hyper-achieving women, based on what I see:

(Please note: A normal client relationship is based on what I see + potent questions to uncover truth + what I see in the answers. This analysis is only based on what I see so is understandably limited, and making some assumptions).

 I just finished watching your speech last night 

And phewww absolutely incredible that you had the strength to stand up and do that. I know so many are standing in awe of you right now.. 

And I can see you did it for Charlie and his cause, and for God. But I also see the tremendous toll and cost on you.

 Your face that said you were anything but ready to forgive

 Your eyes that still hold tremendous and understandable levels of unprocessed anger 

Your body that cannot have had much time this week to rest, reset, process and grieve in between all of the obligations. 

Time to be human. 

Time to be a grieving wife. 

Time to break apart. 

And I also see a woman who, like I used to be, fully believes that she has to hold it all together right now for everyone else.. 

A woman who is so good at wearing that good Christian woman mask – and is celebrated for it:

To sacrifice all of her needs on the altar of obligation and “spreading the gospel”.

A woman carrying the weight of the salvation of the world along with the weight of her own grief while making challenging decisions, running companies, and being a mum to two children who just lost their daddy..

And I can only imagine how bone-deep your exhaustion must run. 

As the adrenaline wears off

And the admiration of the crowd dies down that was numbing over the heart wrenching loss and deep shock you experienced 

And the grief sets in..

I hope you’ll allow yourself time to be

With yourself

And with God

Without the heavy mask of being the perfect Christian wife and woman..

Without feeling like the salvation of the world is yours to carry (Because it’s not, and never was..)

Without worrying what others will think or how they will react to you taking what you need

And without the pressure to keep showing up as you have done this week. I hope you’ll find another way to honour Charlie’s legacy

That doesn’t require your complete self abandonment, your perfection, your performance 

Without obligation and guilt 

Where you find another way to cope other than the good Christian woman mask

Where you’ll not only be focused on giving love but that you will stop long enough to receive it, too

And where you’ll allow God to fully carry you, to surrender, release and allow his peace and rest to enter your realm.

If Charlie’s work was truly a move of and with God.. Then his legacy and the work will never fall apart

Because the source is still here.

And that source is holding space for you right now to fall apart 

The world will understand if we don’t see you for twelve months because you can’t get out of bed

The world will understand if you need to get daily therapy, curl up on your Pyjamas, hold your babies and weep.

And I’m sure Charlie, even if only for the way that that man looked at you with that grin and sparkle in his eyes, will understand your need to grieve the loss of him and all that you had together.

The only thing that matters right now in your world is the wellbeing of this beautiful woman 

Who has lost so much

So that she has the capacity to look after herself

And her two beautiful kids after such shock and loss.

 Jesus is saying

Come and sit by me

And let me carry you through this 

The rest of the world can wait. 

LS x

Spiritually Stuck High-Achievers: The Trap of Learning About God

Is learning about God keeping you wandering in the desert, spinning your wheels?

When we’ve been through hurt — especially church hurt and religious trauma – it’s so easy to go into “Learning Mode” = emotional and intimacy avoidance.

And for high-achieving women, it can be even sneakier.

Because we’re so used to figuring things out. Solving our own problems. Performing and achieving our way to success.

So when it comes to God? We default to over-functioning. Consuming books, podcasts, Bible studies… hoping it’ll bridge the gap between what we believe and what we feel. Showing up, ticking the boxes, but still feeling distant.

And for so many of us – God has actually been PAINFUL. 😣

And when the pain doesn’t make sense, when the wounds are deep, the mind tries to “understand” instead of surrender. We intellectualise the pain, rather than wrestling with God in it.

I see this all the time in high-performing leaders who love God and know Scripture – but secretly feel abandoned, not enough, or like maybe they’re still being punished.

There’s a deep dissonance that happens when the beliefs we were taught –

“God is good,” “God is all-powerful,” “God loves me” –
collide with the real lived pain, disappointment, and trauma we’ve carried.

Here’s how it impacted me:

I got married young (as many of us Good Christian Girls do), ended up in a toxic marriage, got diagnosed with severe rheumatoid arthritis, was in constant physical pain, and then divorced and single again by age 27. I also went through deeply controlling religious environments and their spiritual abuse… but that’s a story for another day 😉

And in the aftermath, healing from the marriage brought up all of my childhood stuff too – so much felt silenced and suppressed in me.

It was like a never-ending recovery – and I truly felt like God had abandoned me. Or that I was being punished. Again.

Here’s what didn’t work:

– Memorising scripture.
– Going to Bible study and church every single week
– Serving in church until I burned out (with full-blown cPTSD)
– Talking to pastors or being prayed for

I tried all of that – because I’m the type who digs in and does the work. I show up and do the thing.

But this wasn’t a matter of discipline. It was a matter of disconnection.

What actually worked was understanding how my mind works – consciously and subconsciously – and going through a very specific process to regulate, rewire, and repair the dissonance.

Not just spiritually, but neurologically and emotionally.

So that I could stop being triggered into performance, dysregulated by shame, and stuck in overdrive learning mode, always trying to prove I was good enough for God’s love and care.

Because deep down, I believed He loved everyone but me.
That He was good to others, but not to me.
That if I wasn’t “perfect,” I wouldn’t be protected.

But today, I can stand before you – not just as a coach, not just as a leader, but as a daughter – and say:

Despite everything…

GOD IS GOOD.
God loves me.
He is restoring every inch of my past.
He is rebuilding me in my surrender.

And the result is the most impactful, joyful, peaceful, and soul-nourishing existence I’ve ever known — with Him.

And I want that for you too. Not just because it’s what you were made for, but because you are worthy of that kind of love and peace too.

If you’re a woman who everyone else sees as successful – but you secretly feel stuck in a spiritual desert, spinning your wheels and wondering why you still don’t feel “enough” or close to God…

Maybe it’s time to stop performing and start wrestling.

Maybe it’s time to stop proving and start co-creating.

Maybe it’s time to leave the desert behind and finally enter the promised land.

I’ve been through the journey, have marked the pathway through all the trees, and am prepping the tools to give you as we speak.

This is The Divine Reset. ✨ Coming soon.

LS x

How To Choose The Perfect Brand Name?

How to Choose the Perfect Business Name

Is coming up with the perfect business name taking up way too much of your time? Are you tired of finding a name you love, only to discover it’s already taken? Feeling like you’re going a little crazy trying to get it right?

You’re not alone! I get it—choosing a business name, brand name, or company name can feel overwhelming, especially when you know how important it is to get it just right. Whether you’re just starting out or looking to rebrand, the pressure to pick a name that fits and stands the test of time can feel intense.

Maybe you’ve been in business for a while, but something just doesn’t feel aligned anymore. You’re ready to move in a new direction, but your current name just doesn’t fit. Or maybe you’re launching something new and want to make sure the name truly reflects your vision. Either way, it’s completely normal to feel stuck!

The truth is, choosing a business name without a clear plan or strategy is HARD. It’s even harder if you’re still figuring out who you are as a brand and how to articulate that. You deserve to have a name that reflects your essence, resonates with your audience, and stands out in your industry.

Here are three powerful tips to help you move forward:

1. Have a Checklist Don’t wing it! When choosing a brand name, it’s essential to have a guide—a list of must-haves and key elements that your name needs to meet. A checklist helps you stay grounded and makes the process less overwhelming. You’ll know if the business name you’re considering measures up and fits your brand vision.

2. Make It Timeless A great brand name doesn’t just work today—it holds up for years to come. You don’t want to choose a name that feels trendy now but becomes outdated or irrelevant down the track. Invest the time to create a name rooted in your brand strategy. Think long-term, not just quick fixes!

3. Set a Deadline It’s easy to get stuck in endless brainstorming and second-guessing. While it’s important to be intentional, it’s equally important not to let fear or perfectionism keep you from moving forward. Give yourself a deadline to make a decision—then commit and go all in!

Ready to move past the overwhelm and finally choose a business name that feels aligned and powerful? My Aligned Brand Name Workbook is here to help. It’s a completely fillable PDF designed to guide you through the process, so you walk away with a name you love—one that positions your brand to stand out, connect, and thrive.

Click here to get your instant download and start naming your business with confidence.

LS x

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The Top 8 Brand Naming Mistakes You Need To Avoid

The Top 8 Business Naming Mistakes You Need To Avoid

Today, I’ll be showing you which MISTAKES you need to avoid like the plague so you can come up with a perfect business name that will stand the test of time!

The real key to choosing the perfect name that lasts is to name your business without making any mistakes. Sounds so simple, but how can you do this when you don’t know what the top 8 business naming mistakes are? Let me in on my tips!

#1 – Don’t Listen To 99% Of Those Giving You Naming Advice For some reason, business naming brings out the expert in everyone around you! Literally EVERYONE will have an opinion when it comes to your business name. I like to think of it like choosing a hairdresser. How do you choose a hairdresser?! You choose someone who has amazing hair, duh! Likewise, only listen to advice from those who actually have brilliant business names and an amazing brand! (Note to self: this generally excludes your mum, husband, sister-in-law, and friend!)

Listen to someone who practices what they preach and can get you the SAME RESULT.

#2 – Allow Time To Find The Right Name So many entrepreneurs want to rush business naming and end up rebranding simply because they didn’t allow themselves enough time to get it sorted. Schedule a proper amount of time to give your creative juices a chance to flow. For me, this is generally around 4 weeks.

#3 – Don’t Limit Based On Keywords Some people try to stuff their business name with keywords, thinking it will help them rank higher in SEO. But as I understand it, the SEO benefits don’t outweigh the huge advantage of crafting a name that shapes how your potential clients think and feel about you as a brand.

Choosing a keyword-rich business name can also mean boxing yourself into a specific location or service (e.g., Central Coast Photography), which limits your future world domination plans that you don’t even know exist yet! SEO is just ONE marketing strategy, not the sole factor to consider.

#4 – Don’t Fence Yourself In The worst thing you can do is box yourself in by product, service, geography, or even your married name. As entrepreneurs, we naturally evolve, pivot, and grow. If your name is too specific, it can hinder that process. Choose a name that leaves room for expansion and future possibilities.

#5 – Forget What You Sell Unless you’re naming a specific product, don’t feel pressured to include your service in the business name. Modern naming methodology allows for more flexibility. A name that ties you to one offering can limit you when your business evolves.

#6 – Change the Least Number of Times Most people don’t cope well with change, and that includes your customers and clients! Nail your business name the first (or second) time around to build trust and brand equity. Changing your name too often confuses your audience and dilutes your identity.

#7 – It’s Not ALL About You Surprising, right? Your business name isn’t just about you—it’s about your dream clients too. And while I’m ALL for alignment – when choosing a name, always consider how it resonates with them rather than just reflecting your personal preferences.

#8 – Avoid Generic Business Name Generators Is your product or service generic? Probably not! Choose a name that reflects the uniqueness of your brand rather than relying on a random name generator. A little TLC and intentionality will yield a name that feels right.

Ready for more tips on choosing the perfect business name? Download my Perfect Business Name Guide for a deeper dive.

LS x

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How to Create a Powerful Brand Name That Stands Out

The KPIs of a Powerful Brand Name

Does this sound anything like you? You’re driven, ambitious, and always pushing forward. You’re either in startup mode or gearing up to relaunch your business. You’re ready to make moves—but there’s one major roadblock: coming up with a killer business name.

You know that nailing your name is key to moving forward. It’s holding up everything—registering the name, securing domain names, trademarking, kickstarting logo design, and even setting up your business bank accounts. It’s frustrating and exhausting, especially when you know that slapping just any name on it could cost you big opportunities later.

The right name is a powerful asset—it’s how you attract the right attention, get taken seriously, build a timeless brand, and create an identity that just fits. Here are the four key performance indicators of a truly powerful business name:

1. It Attracts (the Right) Attention Your business name should be a magnet for your dream clients. The goal is to get noticed by the RIGHT people—those who resonate with your vision and values. When your name sparks curiosity, it opens doors to conversations, collaborations, and leads. Imagine introducing yourself at a networking event: “Hi, I’m Leah from The Golden Goose.” Instantly, people want to know what you do and the story behind your brand—giving you a natural opportunity to share your passion.

2. It Gets You Taken Seriously Your brand name should instantly convey credibility and authority. When your name is powerful and intentional, you attract high-caliber clients and partners who respect your expertise and are willing to invest. Don’t settle for a cheap logo or a cliché name—take yourself seriously, and others will too. A name like “Ezy Websites” might seem catchy, but it doesn’t position you as an expert in your field. Choose a name that matches the level of success and respect you’re aiming for.

3. It’s Timeless A timeless name doesn’t just fit now—it grows with you. Too many entrepreneurs box themselves in with names tied to a specific service or trend, only to find they need to rebrand when their business evolves. A timeless brand name leaves room for growth and innovation while staying true to your core identity. Avoid fleeting trends and instead focus on names that will stand strong five, ten, or even twenty years from now.

4. It Just Fits Your brand name should feel authentic and aligned, not forced or outdated. If you’ve pivoted, evolved, or changed direction, your name should reflect that growth. It should feel like your favorite outfit—something you’re proud to wear and confident to present to the world. The right name resonates not just with your audience but with YOU.

When your business name ticks all four of these boxes, it becomes a powerful asset that supports your success. Don’t rush the process—take the time to get it right, and you’ll build a brand that lasts.

Ready to stop stressing over your business name and finally choose one that aligns with your vision and goals?

Click here to instantly download The Aligned Brand Name Workbook and confidently create a name that attracts, resonates, and endures for less than the price of a nice bottle of vino.

LS x

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It’s Here: A Clear Path to Your Aligned Brand Name

The fastest way to choose an aligned brand name you’re proud to promote is here!

If you’ve been wrestling with the idea of renaming your business or finding the right name—something that truly feels like you while standing out in your industry—you’re not alone. Naming can feel daunting, especially when you know how important it is to get it right..

If you want to create an aligned brand name, you need a step-by-step strategy to:

  1. build your strong brand foundation
  2. Unlock your peak creativity and
  3. Own the uniqueness that sets you apart.

It really is that simple!

This is why I created The Aligned Brand Name Workbook—a practical, fillable guide to help you craft a name that you’re proud to share with the world because it feels so right.. a name that catches attention without losing your authenticity.

You don’t need to spend thousands to get there. Right now, you can instantly download the same $6k brand naming strategy I used with clients for less than the cost of a good bottle of wine.

No more second-guessing. No more feeling stuck. Just a clear, intentional process to discover a name that resonates—one that makes you feel proud every time you say it out loud.

Click here to purchase & instantly download to get started today!

LS x

Spiritual People-Pleasing

Can we talk about Spiritual People-Pleasing?

Because people-pleasing itself is a pattern.

Self-abandonment is a pattern..

And it’s a pattern that many of us picked up at an early age – learning that we weren’t free to be fully ourselves, that we had to twist, and force and manoeuvre our way to receiving the love, belonging and acceptance we desperately craved.

And here’s the thing about Spiritual People-Pleasing:

Having a grounded, honest, authentic relationship with God has been one of the most nourishing and healing aspects of my spiritual awakening..

Especially after being so deeply enmeshed in religious communities and familial relationships where I felt that in order to receive love, connection, belonging, I had to abandon myself – by performing, being perfect, overworking, proving my value by serving, putting on a happy shiny facade, pretzeling myself to fit a certain “Good Christian Girl” or “good Christian Woman” or “perfect daughter” mould that was expected of me..

Often expected of me in the name of God, as if this behaviour was somehow what made God happy with me.

So when I circled back to relationship with God after going through a whole lot of life, trauma, challenge; it made so much sense that I’d be projecting this all onto God – anxious and anticipating what I thought he desires me to be.

Stepping back into old patterns of performing for him, pretzeling myself and essentially stepping into a FAWN RESPONSE with the king of the universe (yes it was as messed up as it sounds).

When all I really had to do was learn to be with him – securely attached – in the present moment.

With nothing to hide, nothing to prove and nothing to try to be, I can bathe in his goodness, deeply connect to his heart and find a peaceful sanctuary I’d only ever dreamed of.

It might sound complicated; but it’s actually quite simple. He loves you, wants relationship with you, and.. if you let him.. he’ll hold your hand and guide you into all healing and truth so that you are FREE to be fully you, with Him in the way that you are designed.

This is The Divine Reset.

2025: A Restoration Kind Of Year

2024 was the year this unlikely prophesy started to come true for me..

I heard it in a podcast episode I was randomly listening to in 2020.

It was strange because it instantly hit as a prophetic message directly for ME as if he were speaking to me 1:1 🤯

It was also strange because I had not received a “prophetic message” before (that I can recall, anyway!) but my spirit instantly knew what it was and that it was for me

And it was from someone (not going to say who so your ego doesn’t click into judgement instead of leaning in to curiosity) that I would NEVER have usually been listening to. (And funnily haven’t listened to since)

Here’s the message:

“Get ready for the people who once hated you to want what you have. There is a reason you couldn’t win them. There is a reason nothing you did could please them. There is a reason they couldn’t accept you.

God meant for you to be alone and lonely and walk by yourself because he never meant for you to become them, he meant for them to become you.

You have finally reached the season that those who once fought you are now going to seek you.

And you’ve got to be healed enough, and feel safe enough to let people in that you’ve been scared of…

.. Because God is going to use you to minister to people who maligned you and you’ve got to know who you are well enough to be ready to receive them.”

Last year, people came back into my world from my past, seeking me out

And it was only through the incredible spiritual GUIDANCE of Jesus in this healing work that I could actually HOLD it and not be triggered to high heaven by it.

This alone is incredible grace. 😭

Because I have experienced three heavy smear campaigns when I wouldn’t bow to toxicity and the fear of man – one familial, one at the ending of my toxic marriage, and one in a Christian church.. and when everything in me screamed to fight back and get revenge..

I got close to God instead.

I trusted him with my reputation

I handed him my broken pieces

I allowed God to do the work on me

And I trusted him to make something beautiful out of them, even if I could not see the HOW.

There is an EASE to this that I wouldn’t have if I had tried to manufacture it alone. This ease comes from a supernatural parting of the sea. It comes from one of prayer and surrendering the pieces. It comes from facing off with the pain, the past and the dark corners of my internal world.

It wasn’t that I clung to this WANTING it to come true. I definitely didn’t want to interact with the majority of the people from my past.

It was just a deep knowing in my spirit that it was going to.

And in the same way I knew that, I know this prophesy is going to play out in a huge way in 2025 and I can’t wait to see the radical work God is going to do through this work + this movement!

Breaking generational chains + liberating entire lineage

Women embracing their immeasurable worth & significance

You reclaiming your birthright of Spiritual Wealth & Spiritual Empowerment

And living in your highest purpose and potential

I want to be clear: we are in for a wild ride + little of what you are about to witness this year is because I am good (though I am magical and amazing and totally own it) but simply because HE is.

This is a restoration kinda year..

And I’m here for it. 🔥

LS x

Dimming Your Own Light & Voice, & Playing Too Small?

It can be incredibly frustrating to know that you’re smart, sparkly and brilliant..

Yet find yourself dimming your OWN light, silencing your OWN voice and playing smaller than what you know damn-well you’re fully capable of.

This is the pattern that former “good girls” and “Good Christian Girls” come up against all the time, leaving them feeling frustrated, anxious and even burnt out.

Because they fight so hard AGAINST this conditioning and these patterns.. only to walk away spinning their wheels and feeling exhausted.

Lady – I HAVE FOUND AN EASIER WAY!!!

And it’s NOT about:

❌ working HARDER or consciously going against your conditioning, just “shutting your inner critic up and putting her in the trunk of your car” kinda vibes

❌ constantly regulating your nervous system through meditations, breath work, visualisation, yoga or even praying more

❌ taking a break/sabbatical or just “resting more”

❌ constantly tweaking/realigning your business or investing in a new marketing, business, sales or even mindset coach.

There IS a way to break-free from past conditioning that keeps you dimming down when you know you’re born to shine bright & serve your people at the highest level..

.. so that you can be fully, unapologetically and authentically yourself in your life and business (and maybe even in your faith)

.. without bending to cancel culture or the expectations of others!

And I’m going to share my simple, trauma-informed framework with you during my new free workshop:

How To Break FREE From The Good Christian Girl Identity To Be Unapologetically & Authentically YOU In Life, Faith & Business & Unlock Your Soul Aligned Impact, Fast.

(Without Burnout, your Inner Critic, or Religious Mindsets Dimming Your Vibe)

This workshop isn’t about adding more to your plate, burning your business down or changing who you are—it’s about uncovering and breaking FREE from the exact root of what’s slowing you down so you can scale your impact, break generational chains and do work that matters.

This is ONLY for the female coach, expert, leader or influencer who is highly driven and absolutely refuses to dim down her magic, vibrance and voice anymore!

If you’re ready to shine bright, live fully, and unlock your next-level impact – WITHOUT BURNOUT –

🤍 CLICK HERE TO SAVE YOUR SEAT NOW

Your most aligned life, business & dream clients are waiting and I can’t wait to guide you there!

LS x

PS. This will be one of your last chances to work with me closely in 2025. If you’ve been drawn to my work and want me to draw the UNTAPPED GOLD from you so you can tap into the potential running through your veins – don’t miss it.